Sunday in Texas

Someone looked up what time the sun rises. We set our alarms, slept, then got up and drove to the beach so we could watch this miracle.

It was a wee bit chilly. Then - gasp - when we talked about going back to our home away from home, it was discovered that Padre and Madre failed to buy coffee at WalMart the night before. Ellis found *Dawn Donuts* and bought donuts and coffee. By the time we got back everyone was ravenous. Allen made coffee and Ellis made scrambled eggs with lots of cheese. We washed fruit, and dished up Ellis's specialty - yogurt, fruit and Reeses Pieces cut up in the yogurt. Orange juice poured, granola and an assortment of cold cereal set out and we had a breakfast fit for the king! 

We listened to Franklin Graham's Easter sermon from 2020 for our church service...

a message of hope for a hurting world. You can find it on YouTube. 

After everyone was through the shower, packed up, dishes washed, fridge emptied, van filled with our stuff, we walked down to the wharf and got tickets to go on a dolphin tour. Good thing we had jackets and sweatshirts along. It was cold and windy out there. The dolphins were always at the edge of our vision or popping out of the water when our backs were turned. There was other interesting, historical info the tour guide gave us and we chugged past Pelican Island ... the island we drove to for our late lunch after we got back to shore. 

First we walked back to the van then drove across a long bridge and put together our picnic lunch.

Ellis grilled steak and hamburgers for us. Sorry, I didn't get a picture of him on the other side of a small building, out of the wind.

There were plenty of sea gulls flying around. I remembered feeding sea gulls leftover minnows on our ride back to shore many long years ago when fishing on Lake of the Woods in northern MN.

There was fat and gristle cut off our steaks that I cut into small pieces - a plateful. We fed them to the gulls, throwing bits into the air, the gulls snatching them before they fell to the ground. Just like old times.

The thing about weekends like this is they go by too fast. Soon we packed everything up and started back to Beaumont. We checked the ferry again and it didn't seem too long to wait. There is a way to drive around, but if you can ride on a ferry who would do that?

              A group picture of all of us

The one thing I didn't take a picture of was all the beach houses on stilts that we passed as we drove along the gulf. Painted every color under the sun. Bright, cheery pinks, blues, peach, teal, many shades of orange and green and blue. I looked at them and thought about hurricane winds and giant waves of water swooshing in under the houses high on those stilts. In the spring sunshine they look happy without a care in the world. Maybe their owners paint them happy-go-lucky colors to keep from thinking about the hurricane season. I love to visit Galveston Texas but I don't think I'm brave enough to live here year round. I will fly back to MN and brave the cold and blizzards. Oops! I guess we have tornadoes and flooding in MN. And no happy-go-lucky paint on our houses.

               an old anchor on display 

Before we knew it we were back at the base, divying out the food and leaving things with Krysta and Allen to bring with them when they drive north. Last year we took some spices with us that caused airport security some concern.They had to test it to make sure we weren't bringing drugs back. 

On our way to Dallas Deanne drove so Ellis could sleep. I colored in my adult coloring book. We listened to Dea's playlist of songs and talked about the highlights of the weekend. We had an airbnb in Dallas, a short night of sleep and early morning flights to catch.

Who knows where another winter trip will take us. The base at Beaumont is being closed after four years of rebuilding. 

Maybe we will go to Timbuktu next year!

Saturday in Texas

Saturday morning arrived. We planned to start for Galveston about 8:00 am. I think we were packed and loaded and driving away from the base by 8:20. The first thing - breakfast! The girls talked quite fast and furious to persuade Ellis that Chick Fil A has very delicious breakfast food. There was a groan when we saw the long line in the drive through. But they have a system! Waitresses are standing in the line taking the orders, sending the order directly to the kitchen and by the time you drive up and pay the food is ready. We parked close by to look inside the bag and make sure we each got what we ordered. And we did, as well as napkins and salt and pepper and ketchup and salsa. Yummy breakfast! 

As we drove toward Galveston we tried to plan our day. It was not going to be long enough to do everything. 

And here are my notes from that day ... 

copy and pasted to this page! 

Wonderful technology 

*Left Beaumont around 8:20. Breakfast at Chick Filet ... a speedy drive thru!!

Drove through Anahuac National wildlife refuge. Birds, gators, water, sky, clouds.*

There was a flock of birds that we thought were flamingos because they were pink. Instead they were Roseate Spoonbills, quite a few of them in a bunch.

We drove through Winnie so Deanne could see the base where Allen and Krysta stayed last year. Also drove past a couple houses they worked on in 2020.

Arrived at the ferry at 1:11 p.m. playing "when I go to Paris" to while away the time! 💕 This is the list of things we put on that ship to Paris. Reminds me of Noah's Ark. 

 Apples, Beau, cauliflower, dragonflies, ermine, flowers, gum, hats, ice cream, jackal, kites, limes, marmalade, nilgai, o'possum, Paddington, quilt, rooster, sucker (candy), tapir, umbrella, valentine, wiggly worm, x -ray, yellow jackets, and zebra.

Drove onto the ferry at 2:15 p.m. yeah!
Got out of the vehicle and watched gigantic ships go past, orange, green, blue. On the back of the blue ship Nordic ______ (something,  I couldn't read the letters)

under that Monrovia. 

A fishing boat pulling a seine, pelicans flying all around, 3 dolphins following the boat, up and swooshing back down!

*The historical harbor tour is full for today. We can come back tomorrow. The dolphin tours are full at least for our group. Only 3 tickets left. We checked at 2 booths. Site seeing *

Since we couldn't go on either tours we changed our plans and decided on an early supper. Both Allen and Ellis wanted crayfish. We drove around until we found a restaurant that looked promising. There was a wait of 15 - 20 minutes so we gave name and phone number... they would text us when our turn came. 

Ellis and I went to an antique store down the street. We found some books! Imagine that! A first edition My Friend Flicka printed in 1941 by Mary O'hara. A Junior Deluxe Editions of My Friend Flicka with line drawings by Don Sibly. Four Little House books by Laura Ingalls Wilder, hard back copies. Little House in the Big Woods, On the Prairie, On the Banks of Plum Creek and By the Shores of Silver Lake. And by that time Allen texted to say we were next in line for our supper.

The guys ordered their crayfish. The girls ordered sandwiches made of something that used to say, "Moo!" and "Cluck cluck!"

My sisters and Mom called while we were eating so I sent them some pictures.  One comment from them, "So it's like eating grubs?!" Deanne was brave and tried one.  

We drove around town a bit and showed Dea the Mansion we toured last year. By then we decided the gulf must be visited. Did I mention this little fact? 

It was Spring Break. 

Texas was crawling with people. 

We got into traffic. 

We went west instead of east because Ellis thought we'd get to a spot he thought he remembered from last year. 

Instead - we came close to WalMart! 

We found a parking spot close to a safe traffic light where Allen, Krysta and Dea could cross the main highway and get to the gulf. 

Ellis and I donned our masks and braved the aisles of WalMart, buying breakfast and lunch for Sunday. 

We loaded all food and picnic items in the van and drove off to our AirBnB. We felt fortunate to have found this spot and reserve it before our arrival since it was spring break and the town was full.

Unpacked, filled the fridge, explored our roomy area then settled down for a game of Scattergories and snacks. It was a full day!

*Did you notice anything in the list of animals, stuffed animals, insects and inanimate items to be taken to Paris? 

There is a name mentioned. 

Go back and look. 

Drum roll please!

The nickname of our new grandchild -

Beau. So nicknamed because Allen and Krysta were at Beaumont this year.

Last year Pearl was nicknamed Winnie

until we met her. 

We are all over the moon excited!

Texas

We went to Texas to visit Allen and Krysta. They knew we were coming, but didn't know Deanne was coming. What a sweet surprise! 

We had straight  through flights to Dallas, rented a vehicle and drove to Beaumont. As Dea was attempting to program the route on the screen in our rental van I WhatsApp'ed Krysta and asked if she had an address for us. 

At the same time Dea said, "This thing is taking us to Mexico!" 

I got done recording my message then exclaimed,  "Do you think she heard you?" 

"Cancel it, quick!"

"Oops, she already read the message!"

She didn't ask any questions so we said nothing and traveled on our merry way.

Five hours later we met Allen and Krysta at Cheddar's. They had gone early to get a table and found out there was a wait time of 45 minutes or so. Good thing they got their name in. When we arrived  Ellis parked and we jumped out while Dea stayed hidden in the van. Allen was waiting for a text to say it's our turn to go in. It got chilly standing there in the breeze so we hopped in their jeep. At last we got the text and started in, Dea trailing along behind us. In the entrance we waited to be seated, Allen and Krysta, Elllis and I with Dea just arriving in the doorway. Krysta turned to us to ask a question and her eyes got as big as saucers.

"What?! How did you get here?!" :)

It was very satisfying! 

What a lot of activities were squashed into a very short time. We flew down there Thursday. Friday we got up in time to have an early breakfast and devotions with the staff and volunteers. After dishes we helped Krysta with her daily cleaning job, vacuuming the hall and rec room and cleaning boys and girls bathrooms. 

Krysta and Dea put together a gigantic recipe of cole slaw for the evening banquet. I had promised to help with that, but felt pulled in two directions because Ellis wanted to find some thrift stores and antiques. And he thought I should go with him. 

We found a couple stores. Ellis found some trivets (he collects them) and a bell ( we collect them) I found a lovely old linen napkin (no stains or holes) By that time we saw a Sonic restaurant and pulled in for lunch. You order on a screen beside your window and a waitress brings out your food - like A&W restaurants in MN. 

By then it was time to go back to the base, pick up the girls  and head out to see the house Allen and his crew are working on.

It is fascinating to see the work on these houses. Sometimes the house has been fixed up then another storm comes with torrential rains and floods it again. 

After walking through that house we got ice cream at the Sonic restaurant then drove to Cattail Marsh and walked along trails where we saw alligators, flowers and ducks of all kinds.

I should ask Dea if she will share her alligator picture. Ellis and I turned around and went back instead of going the full circle. Krysta and Dea kept going and saw quite a gigantic alligator sunning itself just off the path, out of the corner of their eyes after they had passed it. They got a picture before they turned and got themselves out of there. 

In the evening there was a banquet for staff, volunteers, home owners and visitors. Delicious food, good company, interesting stories ... it was an excellent event to end the day.

60 years ago

 

Sixty years ago Leona Martin Skrivseth became a mother. (Here is where I should insert a baby picture of me.) 

Celebrating today with muffins from Perkins, a cute plant and pink balloons. I don't suppose helium balloons were very easy to come by in 1961 for a couple living in Fort Wayne IN on a budget.

I could insert a picture of the hospital I was born in. You should see the cars in the parking lot!

This is sort of spur of the moment.  My pictures are all at home while I am having lunch with Ellis at HogSlat. 

   Two of the puzzles we put together so far.

                 Happy Winter everyone!

Gifts

Our family got together the last weekend of January. We stayed at my sister's house (they are vacationing in a warmer climate.) *Some of the activities* We took turns making meals, played games, took walks using snow shoes, went ice fishing, talked and laughed and cried and prayed together. 

One evening my family piled gifts on the coffee table, sang Happy Birthday to me and served a Dairy Queen birthday cake. When I saw the gifts I asked, "What in the world is going on?!"

 They answered with a question.  "How old will you be on your next birthday?"  

60 is the answer to that. 

They got their heads together, all unbeknownst to me, and decided to give me 60 gifts. I was surprised to say the least! 

Here is a list in alphabetical order.  

I will never be bored again .... not that I've ever had a problem with that. 

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Anne Frank  (book)

Bath soap  bath salts  bags for shopping 

Candles   candy  coloring book

D  3D model of Eiffel Tower

Embroidery kit

Fuzzy socks   Frames for pictures   flower pot

Glasses cleaner

Hand soap

Imagination game

Journals

Kitchen towels   Kleenex 

Love

Mugs  markers

Note books   note cards

Oven mitt

Pot holders  puzzles   paper   pens

Q  Dairy Queen cake

Ribbon

Slippers  spatula 

Truffles   Turtles  Tin of dual tip markers

Uninvited  (book)

V

Winnie the Pooh set (mug, pen, note books)  word search

X

Yards of Washi tape

Z

Christmas 2020

We just got back from MT last evening.  We boarded the plane on time - noting with interest how many dogs we have seen in the airport both going and coming. One cute dog went through the line on a leash attached to his human. When we got to the end of the tunnel - ready to board - the dog and human were there ... the dog in a basket with a blanket around him and comforting pats on the head from his human.  After that we got settled in our seats. I got the window seat this time and the steward noticed Ellis struggling with the seat belt and got him an extension. On the way to MT Ellis was by the window and just stretched the seat belt over his lap and had a jacket folded up on his lap and flew without seatbelt buckled - unnoticed.  

We had just taxied away from the airport and stopped when the steward came over the intercom and said we were going back because of a "situation." They made no further announcements as we waited and waited. At last when we got back to the airport the pilot and steward and a guy with orange vest all went to the back of the airplane. After awhile all returned  then shortly after that the dog and his human. The human apologized to everyone in passing, "I'm so sorry! It's my fault. It was my dog." When they were gone we started all over - now with the safety speech and exits pointed out and demonstration of how the seat belt works, etc. I don't think they did all that the first time, being distracted with the "situation" I suppose.

It was a lovely flight and homecoming. We eventually found the place where our shuttle could pick us up to take us to the park&ride where the car was waiting for us. Allen and Krysta went, too. All of the boys in our family spent Christmas with their in-laws so we decided to spend Christmas with our daughters. We will have our Harshbarger Christmas the last weekend in January up at Nashwauk using Jerry and Trenda's house for our family gathering. (They are going to South Carolina to visit family then from there going to Florida for the month of February.)

I am reclining on my couch in this little addition Allen and Ellis made. We haven't stained and varnished the wood yet. Ellis has two lights to put in and a plug in to finish - tucking all those wires back in and putting the cover on. Then we need to figure out the window seat/storage. I guess we will say goodbye to the couch then. The storage area is going to be lined with cedar like the inside of a cedar chest. There is a lot more space in our living room now.

It sounds like we are in for a winter storm this afternoon and tomorrow. What a nice way to end the year!

Our visit to MT had many highlights. We saw the Mission Mountains. You could live there just for the scenery! So beautiful! They told us we were fortunate to see the mountains.  Often they are shrouded with clouds. 

We played games, ate way too much good food, made some Norwegian specialties,  drove to Kootenai Falls,  read the Christmas story, spent Sunday afternoon/evening with Deanne's  friends - Tom and Sadie. 

They had come to Dea's house Saturday evening to see the lefse making process and get a taste. Dea and Krysta made the lefse from start to finish. They asked if I would roll them out so it was a team effort. Sadie said it was a childhood dream come true - a chance to eat brown sugar with no disapproval from her mother.  

We made cheese ball to go with crackers and chicken salad to go with the lefse if you wanted another option besides sugar. Dea heated up ham balls she had in the freezer. And we had a gigantic lettuce salad to add something healthy to the meal.

Dea has found a recipe for milk mush online. Better known as Rommegrot in Norway.  I think I can send you the link to that or just type in Rommegrot and this blog comes up with history of the dish and a recipe. Krysta made that for breakfast Christmas morning while we listened to a song Deanne's friend sent about Christmas in heaven. So our milk mush was watered with tears. 

We also listened to some comedians at different times throughout the weekend so we had laughter until our sides ached, too. On the way to Kootenai Falls I read "The Best Christmas Pageant Ever" by Barbara Robinson. There is plenty of laughter and tears in that book!

We drove through the National Bison Range on our way to the airport. Next time I hope it will be in the summer so we can go on the roads that are closed for the winter. We saw bison and lots of white tail deer. A couple of coyotes. The mountains were curtained with clouds otherwise we would have gotten another view of the Mission Mountains. Any time we fly to Missoula I will beg to drive five miles out of the way to see them again - if it's a clear day.

I started a letter telling about the year -  2020. It got quite long winded and I'm only half way through - not even half way. We will start you off at the tail end of the year until the other letter gets finished.

Merry Christmas and  a  Happy New Year!

Pearl India Nolt

 To you - my friends in blogger world - I want to introduce you to our beautiful granddaughter who was stillborn Wednesday  October 7, 2020. This was completely unexpected.  Allen and Krysta heard a strong heartbeat on Monday.  Tuesday afternoon /evening at the beginning of labor there was no heartbeat. They had been planning a home birth with a midwife in attendance. When there wasn't a heartbeat they immediately transferred to the hospital where an ultrasound showed the baby had died. Krysta was able to labor and deliver Pearl India Nolt at 6:13 AM Wednesday morning. 

There is no explanation.  Some tests have been done but no results are back. 

We were able to hold Pearl in the hospital room. We took turns  saying hello and goodbye.  This all sounds very cold and unemotional, but you all know our heart's are crying.  

Allen and Krysta spent all day with Pearl. They bathed her and dressed her and wrapped her in a soft blanket. We took pictures.  I am so glad we live in a time when we are allowed to grieve.  Encouraged to grieve  ... 

We have plans for a visitation Sunday afternoon.  The Worlein Funeral Home in Blooming Prairie  MN is helping with all the arrangements.  You can go on the website and get information of times and dates for the visitation and funeral. 

We are supported by the God of all comfort and so many people who are praying for our family. 

Pearl India Nolt 

7lb. 6oz. 19 1/2 in.

Safe in the arms of Jesus